Celebrating Our Care Home Residents | ‘National "I Care About You” Day’
Would you like to hear the loving story of a devoted couple, both care home residents, who’ve been married for 65 years?
In honour of ‘National “I Care About You” Day’, we spoke to Don and Joan at The Old Rectory to hear their heartwarming tale.
Check out our blog to discover more…
‘National “I Care About You” Day’
The 25th of October marks ‘National “I Care About You” Day’.
This day gives you the opportunity to celebrate those around you and express your gratitude, showing that you care.
In 2009, this national day was created to recognise the importance of expressing love and appreciation for your friends, family and significant others.
This annual reminder helps you to take a step back and reconnect with others.
It’s important to show that you care to promote social and emotional well-being and strengthen your relationships with others.
A Strong Bond Between Care Home Residents
Don, aged 86, and Joan, aged 83, met when they were teenagers during Christmas of 1952.
Christmas is a time of spreading joy and love, and symbolises togetherness — something that was certainly the case for Don and Joan!
What started as a teenage love story, blossomed into a long life of love and commitment.
The pair were delighted to welcome two children throughout their 6 decades of marriage. Now married for 65 years, the couple share two grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.
Don and Joan’s story now continues as they are both care home residents at The Old Rectory.
Care Home Residents | Don’s Advice For a Lasting Marriage
One of our beloved care home residents, Don, said: “I’d never had a girlfriend before Joan, but when we met, we just slotted together. Our relationship has been very happy and very successful, so we can confidently say we’ve had a good marriage.”
The couple credited their long-lasting marriage to; “saying sorry if you’re in the wrong and telling each other that you love them.”
‘National “I Care About You” Day’ recognises the importance of expressing genuine affection for your loved ones and showing that you care for them.
Through meaningful words and thoughtful actions, this can help to strengthen connections.
In our care home setting, strong bonds and connections can have a positive impact on the quality of our residents’ lives, providing them with a comfortable and trusting environment.
Joan’s Thoughts | 65 Years Married
Reminiscing on their earlier days, Joan said “He used to come by my house every night, and in those days we used to sit by the open fire. My mum, step-dad, Don and I would play cards before the television came, but that’s what it was like back then, and we enjoyed it.”
At ACI Care, we aim to promote a warm, comfortable atmosphere for our residents and we understand the importance of assisting with fostering new connections and strengthening existing relationships.
We encourage our care home residents to regularly engage in stimulating activities to provide a sense of normalcy and social interaction.
Regular activities also help provide our residents to relive pastimes and engage in games they used to enjoy.
Celebrating National Days With Our Care Home Residents
Our Registered Manager at The Old Rectory, Kelly Parker, said: “Don and Joan’s story is truly heartwarming and they stand as a testament to the enduring power of love and companionship.
“Their relationship is a reminder that a bit of compassion goes a long way in a happy marriage, and we’re looking forward to helping them continue their journey together for years to come at The Old Rectory.”
Celebrating national holidays and awareness days helps our residents feel connected to the wider community, and the world at large.
This also provides them with the opportunity to learn about, and respect, other cultures and traditions, creating an inclusive community.
To learn more about the care we provide at ACI Care, please contact a member of our team.
Alternatively, why not check out our recent blog on Halloween activities at our Gabriel Court care home.
Fun Halloween Activities | Discover How We're Celebrating Halloween at Gabriel Court
Are you looking for some fun Halloween activities this October?
At Gabriel Court, our residents are getting into the spirit of Halloween with a range of themed ideas and activities. Read on to discover how you can also enjoy the spooky season...
Fun Halloween Activities: Pumpkin Painting
Avoid the mess of pumpkin carving and dig out the paintbrushes to reveal your inner picasso!
Pumpkin painting is a great way to embrace the Halloween spirit. It’s suitable for all generations, with minimal cost and maximum fun.
Get creative with colours, whether you prefer traditional or wacky designs, or want to experiment with glow-in-the-dark paints.
Themed Baking Ideas
Trick or Treat is set in Halloween tradition but, this year, why don’t you drop the trick and keep the treat?
Baking is a great way to enjoy the season — and you don't have to be the world's best patisserie chef or the next ‘Bake Off’ winner to get started!
From pumpkin cheesecake to spider biscuits, there are plenty of fun, easy bakes to try your hand at this Halloween.
In fact, why not bring some of your favourite creations to Gabriel Court this October?
Sharing these delicious treats over a cup of tea is a wonderful opportunity to spend quality time together and is sure to bring a smile to your loved one’s face.
Fun Halloween Activities: Spooky Games
Now the weather is colder, it’s the perfect time to enjoy some family time with Halloween-themed games.
Whether it’s a round of Cluedo or homemade Halloween bingo, there are plenty of fun ideas for celebrating the spooky season.
One of our favourite ideas is to create your own tin can bowling game.
Simply paint a series of tin cans in a Halloween theme (Frankenstein, ghost, pumpkin, mummy, and a black cat for starters). Once dry, stack them up and compete to knock them down using a tennis ball.
Host a Halloween Film Night
Film nights are an ideal way to bring everyone together and round off the day.
Get cosy watching family favourites like 'The Addams Family', Roald Dahl’s 'The Witches', or Tim Burton’s comical but equally scary 'BeetleJuice.'
In the run-up to Halloween, why not put together a graze board (filled with Halloween-themed nibbles), cosy up under a blanket with a crackling fire, and enjoy a family film night!
Fun Halloween Activities: Creepy Clay Modelling
Still stuck for fun Halloween activities and ideas? Why not try clay modelling?
Shape and mould a range of spooky characters, from ghosts and ghouls to vampires and creepy crawlies, and let the clay air dry, before painting, or adding any final touches.
Clay modelling is a great activity for all ages and provides plenty of fun. It’s particularly beneficial for older adults, as it helps improve dexterity in the hands and enhances fine motor skills.
Embark on an Autumnal Walk
If you’re looking for fun Halloween activities but would rather avoid the spooky element, why not embark on a nature-themed walk instead?
There are a myriad of beautiful green spaces in Kettering, perfect for exploring the local area.
Take a travel mug with a warming coffee, head out in the early morning frost and enjoy spotting wildlife hiding among the autumn leaves.
If you’d like to visit your loved one this Halloween, please contact a member of our team, and we’ll make sure the diary is clear for you to enjoy some quality time together!
Or, if you’re looking for a care home in Kettering for your loved one and would like to know more about Gabriel Court, please book a tour, and we’ll gladly show you around.
Alternatively, why not read our previous blog to discover how we promote healthy living at our Fairways care home?
Hastings care residents' bond shines for Friendship Day
Peggy and Barbara, residents at Mountside Care Home, a branch of ACI Care that specialise in residential, dementia and respite care, recently struck up a friendship after finding that both their daughters worked as exam invigilators at local schools.
From then on, the duo became inseparable with staff always finding the pair deep in conversation with a hot drink or taking part in one of the home’s many activities.
Speaking of their newfound friendship, Peggy said: “It’s great having someone to talk to who understands me and she always knows how to make me laugh.” Whilst Barbara added: “We really enjoy each other's company and doing things together.”
Mountside strongly encourages the forming of new friendships and relationships to promote socialisation and positive mental health. The home also strives to make every resident feel part of the community and to try and alleviate feelings of isolation and loneliness that are more prevalent amongst elderly care residents – with 60% of people in care homes reporting they get no visitors, according to Age UK.
Peggy previously worked in a village shop and post office, whilst Barbara, a resident at Mountside for 12 years, worked as a nanny for Lord Peckingham. Both ladies will be enjoying a cup of tea and a slice of cake tea together to mark the day and show gratitude to the companionship Mountside offers its residents.
Ravi Sodha, Director of ACI Care, said: “We believe that friendship knows no age limits, and Peggy and Barbara's beautiful bond is a testament to that. It’s lovely to witness such genuine connections between our residents, proving that companionship and laughter can brighten any stage of life.”
International Friendship Day seeks to promote the role that friendship plays across all cultures. The United Nations encourages society groups to hold events, activities and initiatives that contribute to the efforts of the community towards promoting a dialogue of solidarity, mutual understanding and reconciliation.
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Kettering home resident celebrates World Music Day
A former professional saxophonist and Kettering care home resident living with dementia has been reminiscing over his days fronting a band to mark World Music Day (Wednesday, June 21).
Gabriel Court, a branch of ACI Care that specialises in residential, respite and dementia care, has been encouraging its residents to share stories and memories about music, with Roy Tosh’s anecdotes particularly striking a chord with other residents and carers.
After working as a potato picker, Roy eventually found his way to the saxophone when his clarinet needed new reeds, before eventually selling the instrument to buy a ring for his now-wife, Jessie.
In 1970, The Roy Bishop Sound was born, named serendipitously after a bishop’s chess piece that happened to be in Roy's hand during a discussion about different names.
The band began as a three-piece ensemble, and over time, it grew in numbers, incorporating a bass player, guitarists and singers.
Roy, 87, who now lives with dementia, spoke fondly of his musical past saying: “I’m left with so many memories of happy times and a keen ear and passion for music.
"I still remember attending the concert of one of my biggest influences, Victor Silvester OBE, a musician from the British dance band era.
"The lights went down on an empty stage and when they came back on the piano player was sitting there and began playing, captivating the audience.
"I knew then I wanted to perform in similar venues, and I went on to have a lovely career.”
Music has a unique ability to stimulate memories and emotions, allowing individuals to reconnect with their past and evoke positive feelings while also helping to reduce agitation and improve mood — especially in those living with dementia.
Reminiscing about these past times on World Music Day helps individuals to engage in meaningful conversations, promoting a sense of identity and belonging.
Dale Knighton, activities coordinator at Gabriel Court, said: “Talking to Roy about his past in music has made it clear to me that music has a great impact on people's memories and emotions.
"It’s been lovely hearing Roy share these memories and listen to some of the music of his life.
"Music is generational and is a great way to open up someone's world."
Hastingshome praised by CQC inspectors
Mountside Care Home, a branch of ACI Care that specialises in residential, respite and dementia care, recently received a ‘Good’ rating from the CQC, building on its ‘requires improvement’ rating from the year before.
Inspectors commended the Laton Road home for performing well and meeting expectations following an inspection in November.
The report said the home was ‘clean, well-maintained and comfortable’ noting that ‘there were enough staff to meet people's needs’.
Mountside said the most recent report details the home’s transformation and how ‘the providers' governance systems had improved and were being used consistently to improve the service.’
At the time of inspection, 40 people were living at the home and CQC recognised that ‘people were supported to have maximum choice and control of their lives, while staff supported them in the least restrictive way possible and in their best interests.’
Ravi Sodha, director of ACI Care, said: “This is a very significant milestone for Mountside as we continue on our journey to provide the very best care to the Hastings community. We’re absolutely delighted to have improved on our CQC rating from last year and it's a true testament to the efforts of our staff to see major improvements.”
Taking on board advice from the last inspection, the home said it followed a stringent action plan which included upgrading the care planning software and recruiting a new and enthusiastic staff team to work alongside the dedicated long-standing staff on the continuous improvement of the home.
Ravi said: "We are continually building a strong team at Mountside as we all work together to make it a great place to both work for our carers and live for our residents. As we continue to grow and improve, so will our inspection rating.”
When questioned as part of the report, a resident said: "I feel safe, the staff are amazing, and they look after me well and look out for us all.
"I enjoy the activities, we play bingo and have quizzes, I have plenty to do. I can join in the activities or watch television. My family can take me out and I will meet friends for lunch here. I’m settled, the staff are good and seem to be highly efficient and trained, so I don't have any worries."
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Hastings care worker honored with surprise party for 30 years
Shelagh Hazleton started working at Mountside Care Home, a branch of ACI Care that specialises in residential, respite and dementia care, in 1992 – where she joined to assist residents with their hair, before volunteering with afternoon activities.
Staff and residents at the Laton Road home kept the celebrations a secret so Shelagh was overwhelmed when she walked into the lounge to be greeted by a room of smiling faces. Even some residents who would normally stay in their room opted to come out and share Shelagh’s special afternoon. She was given a card full of warming messages, a bottle of wine and a beautiful clock, and the home’s chef Steve had prepared a buffet.
The rewarding job has seen Shelagh spend three decades at the care home, ensuring each resident is engaged, happy and their needs are met. Shelagh, who is now the home’s activities coordinator, joined after her husband’s grandmother became a resident at Mountside thirty years ago.
By showing kindness, Shelagh received kindness in return. Mountside wanted to offer Shelagh a full-time position after seeing her patience and empathy with the residents during her voluntary work but she initially turned down the offer due to childcare struggles of her newborn daughter, Louise. However, not wanting to lose Shelagh and the great work she does, the home offered the solution for Shelagh to bring Louise to work with her so she could continue her duties whilst keeping an eye on her daughter. This delighted some of the residents, with one finding particular joy in cuddling and feeding Louise.
Shelagh leads various activities throughout the week, trying to make each day different and engaging. Some of the most popular activities include board games, card games, magnetic darts and bingo on a Friday. She goes above and beyond to ensure all residents' needs are met, and for those who don’t wish to leave their rooms, Shelagh sits with them one-to-one and encourages them to play cribbage and cards, or just engage in conversation.
Speaking of her time at the care home, Shelagh Hazleton said: “It’s amazing. I love my job every single day. It’s hard work but very rewarding. In fact, the rewards you get from it far outweigh the hard work.”
Talking of one of her fondest memories, she recalls: “We did have one lady who thought our Elvis performer was the real Elvis. Her heart would melt the minute he came in and her family always paid for him to come and sing for us all. Even when her dementia got quite bad she could always recognise Elvis, and it was lovely to see!”
Not falling far from the tree, in what could be considered fate, Shelagh was born in the house opposite the care home where she now works. Reminiscing over its history, she recalls that the property was two separate buildings - one being a boys school, and the other a house that was sold to become a care home. The care home took over the house next door, combining the properties and adding an extension to make it what stands today, before ACI Care acquired it in 2020.
Kimberley Mann, fellow activities coordinator at Mountside Care Home, said: “Shelagh is amazing with the residents and she really takes her time to ensure they are all happy and accounted for. Even those who don’t want to come out of their rooms and participate in activities, Shelagh is happy to go and just spend time with them one-on-one for a chat.
“To reach a 30-year milestone working at a care home is amazing. There is always bad press about care homes being understaffed and experiencing high turnover, but amongst all the noise there is a Shelagh who wouldn't want to be doing anything else, and in Mountside’s case, the residents wouldn’t want anyone else here either. It’s a pleasure to be able to work alongside her in creating a bit of magic for our residents’ lives every day.”
Read the story online here: https://www.sussexexpress.co.uk/news/surprise-party-for-hastings-care-home-worker-who-reached-30-year-milestone-3951113
Hastings care home residents celebrate International Men's Day
Staff at Mountside Care Home organised a special afternoon for its male residents to mark International Men’s Day on Saturday November 19.
After being invited to the Valley View Lounge inside Mountside Care Home, residents enjoyed beer, snacks, a game of snooker and a pub quiz.
International Men’s Day is also a chance to encourage men to speak up and discuss their mental health. There are various emotional and physical benefits of socialising in a group, including creating feelings of belonging and security, reduced stress, and reduced feelings of loneliness.
The afternoon was a success amongst residents, with Colin Rook, 78, saying: “I really enjoyed the afternoon and the lunch was really tasty.” Residents also enjoyed a bit of friendly competition as a team of men went head-to-head with the women at the pub quiz. The men came out on top but fellow resident Betty White, 80, joked: “We only let the men win as it was their special day.”
Mountside Care Home’s activity coordinator, Shelagh Hazleton, said: “It was lovely to see so many happy faces, the afternoon was a great success. Even the ladies played their part in helping the men feel special and loved.
“We have a great community here and we aim to make everyone feel special every day, not just on a specific day - but it was a great excuse to celebrate and have a fun afternoon!”
Mountside Care Home regularly hosts activities for its residents to promote wellbeing and keep them active both physically and mentally, in and outside of the home.
International Men's Day started in Trinidad and Tobago in 1999, where it was created by Dr Jerome Tuluck Singh to commemorate his father's birthday. It is now celebrated in over 80 countries with the aim of highlighting the social issues faced by men both mentally and physically.
Northamptonshire care group launches ‘CarePool Karaoke'
A care group based in Northamptonshire has launched ‘CarePool Karaoke’, a unique take on James Corden’s famous ‘Carpool Karaoke’ from The Late Late Show – to provide staff and residents with an opportunity to talk, open up, and sing together.
ACI Care, a group of care homes which specialise in residential, respite and dementia care, has launched its three-part ‘CarePool Karaoke’ series. The first two episodes will feature carers Dale and Gemma, singing and discussing their careers and what they love about care. Whilst the third episode will be a joint effort by Nora (72) and Mavis (82), two residents from Gabriel Court, an ACI run care home in Kettering.
CARE HOME WELCOMES COMMUNITY TO BARBECUE
A Hastings care home has thrown a family fun barbecue event in its grounds in a bid to rebuild stronger community links and bolster resident morale following the pandemic.
Mountside Care Home, a branch of ACI Care that specialises in residential, respite and dementia care, recently hosted an open barbecue to integrate residents with the local community.
It was organised by the carers at ACI Care, with the home’s chef, Stephen Avery, showcasing his culinary skills by serving up much-loved favourites such as gourmet burgers and sausages in brioche buns, alongside lamb kebabs skewered with lightly roasted peppers.
An Elvis tribute act put smiles on everyone’s faces with his nostalgic renditions of ‘Blue Suede Shoes’, ‘Hound Dog’ and ‘Love Me Tender’, which saw residents and guests alike singing along.
Alongside residents’ family and friends in attendance, the event also garnered interest from prominent figures within the community, such as the deputy mayor of Hastings and councillor of Braybrooke Ward, Margi O'Callaghan.
She said: “I was invited to Mountside by a lovely lady named Sheila who lives near me in Silverhill. As deputy mayor of Hastings, I thought it would be a great idea to attend the barbecue. I was pleasantly surprised at what I saw — I felt as if I had stepped into a café almost, rather than a retirement home. Everyone had a wonderful time and I’m really pleased to have been invited.
“I think community events in residential care settings are extremely important, especially after the last couple of years spent in lockdown due to Covid-19. The barbecue was an excellent way of opening the community back up, enabling residents to see more people and begin enjoying life again.”
Ravi Sodha, director of the ACI Care group, said: “At Mountside, we strive to keep our residents entertained to allow them to lead fulfilling lives, and believe events like these are an excellent way of achieving just that. Following the unprecedented outbreak of Covid-19, we were keen to start reintegrating our residents with the local community, as we believe this greatly improves resident morale. Overall, the open barbecue was a huge success and we hope to host similar events in the near future.”
Read the full story here.
Balanced Lifestyle | How We Promote Healthy Living at Our Fairways Care Home
Living a healthy lifestyle can offer a range of benefits, and is essential to enhancing the lives of our residents.
In honour of World Heart Day this September, we’re exploring ways to promote and maintain a healthy, balanced lifestyle at our Fairways residence:
A Balanced Lifestyle: What is World Heart Day?
World Heart Day is a global celebration that takes place annually on the 29th September.
The aim of this day is to raise awareness about Cardiovascular disease, and how to prevent it through important lifestyle changes.
An unhealthy diet and a lack of exercise are two of the main modifiable risk factors for heart problems. By participating in 30 minutes of exercise daily and maintaining a healthy diet, this can greatly minimise the risk of health issues.
At ACI Care, we understand the importance of building and maintaining a balanced lifestyle, and work closely with each of our residents to ensure their care plan promotes this.
Physical Ways to Stay Healthy
Staying healthy has a significant impact on various aspects of your life, including your physical, emotional and mental health.
At Fairways, we understand the importance of promoting a healthy lifestyle. Our holistic approach to care considers the physical and emotional needs of each of our residents, providing them with a sense of purpose and fulfilment throughout their time with us.
We encourage our residents to take part in regular physical activity, to help support their heart and enhance their strength, balance and mental health. This can include walks along Greatstone Beach or a light stroll around the nearby idyllic scenery of New Romney.
Spending time outdoors helps to improve physical wellbeing, leading to improved mood and reduced stress, as well as helping the body to heal quicker.
By dedicating time to staying active, you can increase oxygen to the brain and improve your overall physical mobility and strength. Other great activities for seniors include yoga, cycling, chair exercise, dancing, and many more!
Our residents at Fairways have recently been staying active through flower arranging, baking and dancing.
Creating a Balanced Lifestyle | A Healthy Diet
Providing a well-balanced, homemade meal for our residents is key to ensuring they’re staying healthy and receiving the nutrients they need.
Creating a healthy diet incorporates nutrient-rich foods that provide the necessary vitamins, minerals, and energy the body needs, while reducing the intake of salt, sugar and harmful fats.
Exceeding the recommended daily intake of salt can cause high blood pressure, while a lack of nutrients can weaken your immune system.
At Fairways, we serve our residents three homemade meals a day to ensure nutritional quality, and to provide a sense of normalcy. Enjoying homemade meals at set times can provide residents with consistency and familiarity, promoting a home-like environment.
Consistent nutritious meals can increase energy levels while supporting the immune system, contributing to our residents’ welfare.
The Importance of a Balanced Lifestyle
Living a balanced lifestyle is essential for improving overall wellbeing.
In care, older adults may feel a loss of independence and purpose. By building and maintaining a balanced routine, this can provide residents with a sense of accomplishment and predictability.
A balanced lifestyle can help to slow down any decline in physical and cognitive functioning that can occur with age, by promoting social interaction — which can lead to new connections. This is important for older adults, as it helps to minimise feelings of isolation, and boost their mood.
This balance can also assist with alleviating mental health issues through engaging in enriching activities that stimulate the mind and encourage movement.
A Balanced Lifestyle at Our Fairways Residence
A balanced lifestyle at Fairways Residence is crucial to ensuring our residents live the highest possible quality of life.
By encouraging healthy living, we can help our residents maintain their physical, mental and emotional well-being.
With regular physical activities, fresh, nutritious meals and access to outdoor spaces, a balanced lifestyle as Fairways is a top priority.
Reach out to our dedicated team today to find out more about the care we offer.
Alternatively, why not read our recent blog to discover how we can care for your loved one?